Ever since COVID-19 started changing our schedules and lives, has your relationship with your family changed?
I had a conversation with my friend where we talked about this. I hope you can learn something from us.
Me: So how's it been lately?
Friend: Not great. My parents are way more snappy and wound up cause we’re at home all the time. They’re fighting a lot now too.
Me: Oh no. Maybe you can try finding an escape like a hobby or sport or just going on a walk. It’s definitely harder now with COVID.
Friend: Yeah, I think that would definitely help distract me. How’s your family?
Me: My dad and stepmom are moving out but I’m honestly fine. Having good friends is more important to me lately.
Friend: I know right. I’ve always said you choose your family. Sometimes friends can feel more like family to me.
Me: For sure. Just remember that its okay if you feel angry, but remember to take care of yourself and take a break.
Friend: Thanks. You and some of my other friends have been really helpful in this.
Me: Aw, thanks. I’m always here for you. Do you think your friends connect with you more than family sometimes?
Friend: Yeah, actually. They struggle with the same stuff I do so having that connection is really nice. Like my parents don’t accept me being anything except straight but my friends do. But sometimes I feel guilty.
Me: What do you mean?
Friend: I don’t know, I guess I think I shouldn’t be closer to friends than the people that raised me.
Me: Well, it’s like you said. Family isn’t just who you live with, it’s who loves you and cares about you unconditionally.
Friend: Definitely with you on that.
COVID-19 has challenged my relationship with my family now that we all stay in the same house for hours on end. My friends have helped me through lots of situations where I felt really lonely or like no one cared. Having supportive relationships brings me positivity and happiness that I otherwise wouldn’t have, which is especially important these days.
If you or a friend are experiencing a mental health emergency or other crisis, please contact Colorado Crisis Services Call 1-844-493-TALK or text “TALK” to 38255. https://coloradocrisisservices.org/.
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Vanessa Tao
Vanessa Tao is a high schooler in Littleton, Colo. She likes to play video games, draw, write, and read books. She also does taekwondo and has an adorable Chihuahua mix dog. She joined the Forward Together campaign because she has struggled with making connections in the past and would like to help others find meaningful relationships.
